tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9057892978219605677.post1897748401137442439..comments2023-09-17T04:22:17.878-07:00Comments on Bad Ass Femmes: Unrepentant SLUT Series: Absolutely No RegretsUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9057892978219605677.post-2948965794062955362009-07-28T19:28:04.773-07:002009-07-28T19:28:04.773-07:00Nope, what part of my post suggests that he made m...Nope, what part of my post suggests that he made me feel bad about it? It's all a big sociological study to me. Keep tryin'.Adminhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07064332985551460339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9057892978219605677.post-70907015000465646772009-07-28T18:02:21.262-07:002009-07-28T18:02:21.262-07:00from the reading of your post it's obvious he ...from the reading of your post it's obvious he did make you feel bad about it. duhAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9057892978219605677.post-35677478902339818782009-07-17T20:23:28.292-07:002009-07-17T20:23:28.292-07:00I have to applaud you for your tenacity and not st...I have to applaud you for your tenacity and not stepping down from your beliefs. Women's sexuality has been oppressed for such a long time and controlled by men. When women take control of their sexuality they are seen as "sluts" as being "easy women". For women of color it is extremely difficult considering some of the historical violence that has been perpetuated on their bodies. Starting with African American/Black women and the constant abuses that they experienced and continue to experience. Latin American women especially indigenous women have subjected to decades of sexual violence. It is time to free ourselves from this sort of oppression and guilt within ourselves. I had a similar experience with my mother when she found my birth control pills when I was in High School and I was called every name in the book. <br /><br />I found that your take on the situation and your humor about such a stupid comment that guy made was great! I love your blog and Im enjoying it a lot!Coatlicue Fatalehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10291692331647869801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9057892978219605677.post-16347023968605613572009-07-14T08:30:54.602-07:002009-07-14T08:30:54.602-07:00I love your story! you are a bad ass!
I often thi...I love your story! you are a bad ass!<br /><br />I often think about how I will react if one of my future children has sex at an early age. Society tells us that we are supposed to be upset about it, but I think that I will just tell her to have safe sex and also not to listen to all those assholes' stupid games that they play.Adminhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07064332985551460339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9057892978219605677.post-14638420466112713562009-07-14T08:19:09.239-07:002009-07-14T08:19:09.239-07:00Good for you. I too lost my virginity at a young ...Good for you. I too lost my virginity at a young age. "Saved" it by getting really good at giving blowjobs. At last count the number of sex partners was over 50. And that includes the ones that I fucked simply because it was easier than fighting about it. I've been called a slut, whore and various other names. And been told by men that I shouldn't sleep with them as soon as I did (not that they complained when it was happening, it was always after the fact, naturally) I have a 4 year old daughter in whom I hope to instill more self respect and esteem than my parents did in me, but if she wants to have volumes of sex I want her to be safe, have a good time and be able to fend off the assholes who will judge her. They aren't going away I'm afraid. The double standard makes it much too easy for the patriarchy to control women and we need more women like us to tear down those walls! Keep at it and don't let the asshomes get you down.Scooterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15474940179815521345noreply@blogger.com